• Home
  • Episodes
  • Books for Leaders
  • About Us
    • Our Team
    • Contact Us
  • Our Sponsors
  • Blog
  • Our Newsletter
The Leadership Podcast

The Leadership Podcast

We Study Leaders

On Character: Choices That Define a Life

June 17, 2025

On Character: Choices That Define a Life

AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

From the bestselling author of Team of Teams and My Share of the Task, reflections on character, and who we choose to be.

“Reputation is what men and women think of us;
character is what God and angels know of us.”

—Thomas Paine

How to measure a life? After a career of service, retired four-star general Stanley McChrystal had much to contemplate. He pondered his successes and failures, his beliefs and aspirations, and asked himself, Who am I, really? And more importantly, who have I become? When I die, how will I be measured?

In the end, McChrystal came to a conclusion as simple as it was profound: the reality of who we are cannot be recorded in dates or accomplishments. It is found in our character—the most accurate, and last full measure, of who we choose to be.

On Character offers McChrystal’s blueprint for living with purpose and integrity, challenging us to examine not just our deeds but who we become through them. Drawing from a lifetime of experience, he distills profound insights on setting and meeting standards, aligning actions with beliefs, and offers practical advice on overcoming obstacles and pursuing self-improvement.

According to McChrystal, character is not a trait inherited at birth, nor does it automatically come from education, position, or experience. Character, instead, comes down to a succession of choices, most mundane, several momentous, that reveal the deep truth of our capacity for virtue.

In an era where understanding and upholding our ideals is more crucial than ever, On Character offers an inspiring roadmap for personal growth and integrity—a call to become our best selves, both as individuals and as Americans.

Order Now!
About the Book
Details
Author: BBB Guests - Main
Series: Stan McChrystal
Tags: character, courage, Discipline, ethics, Growth, Humility, Leadership, Military, Personal Development, Philosophy, Success, Virtue, wisdom
ASIN: 0593852958
Order Now
Buy from Amazon
Share
Facebook Twitter Google+
Other Books on the Show in the "Stan McChrystal"
Team of Teams
Authentic Leadership
My Share of the Task: A Memoir
What Got You Here Won’t Get You There: A Round Table Comic: How Successful People Become Even More Successful
Courage: The Backbone of Leadership
Leaders: Myth and Reality
Risk: A User's Guide
Preview
Disclosure of Material Connection: Some of the links in the page above are "affiliate links." This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Risk: A User's Guide
Coming Soon

Related Posts

  • TLP325: The butcher, the baker, the candlestick maker
  • TLP069: How A Navy SEAL Became a Rear Admiral
  • TLP105: Amy McGrath’s 90th Mission
  • TLP310: See What Others Miss
  • TLP397: How to Control Your Attention with Nir Eyal
iTunes
Spotify
Audible
SoundCloud
iHeartRADIO

Instagram Feed

westudyleaders

#leadership #leadershiptraining #leader #westudyleaders

Empathy helps leaders connect, build trust, and fo Empathy helps leaders connect, build trust, and foster teamwork. By understanding their team's emotions, leaders boost morale, resolve conflicts, and make better decisions.🎧 Tune in to our latest podcast to learn how to develop this key skill! https://bit.ly/TLP-453?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#EmpathyInLeadership #GreatLeaders #EmotionalIntelligence #LeadershipDevelopment #Teamwork
Overwhelmed and burnt out? You might be focusing o Overwhelmed and burnt out? You might be focusing on the wrong things. Kasey D'Amato explains why leaders must reevaluate their time and energy every 90 days to stay on track. https://bit.ly/TLP-455?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #Success #Entrepreneurship #SelfLeadership #Coaching #CareerGrowth #TimeManagement
Curiosity isn't just a trait—it's a switch. If i Curiosity isn't just a trait—it's a switch. If it's off, you're stuck. If it's on, every day feels like progress. Jamie Beaton shares how top leaders and learners stay engaged, relevant, and continuously growing. If you feel stuck, this episode is for you! Listen now: https://bit.ly/TLP-456?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#CuriositySwitch #Leadership #GrowthMindset #StayRelevant #TopTalent #Entrepreneurship
TLP456: The Curiosity Switch: How Leaders Stay Ahe TLP456: The Curiosity Switch: How Leaders Stay Ahead with Jamie Beaton Our latest episode with Jamie Beaton https://bit.ly/TLP-456?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders&utm_content=TLP456%3A%20The%20Curiosity%20Switch%3A%20How%20Leaders%20Stay%20Ahead%20with%20Jamie%20Beaton #leadership #GrowthMindset #CuriositySwitch #TopTalent #BusinessSuccess #GlobalLeadership #Entrepreneurship #CEO #ScalingUp #LeadershipDevelopment
Want an adaptable team? Give them the freedom to m Want an adaptable team? Give them the freedom to make smart decisions. Blayne Smith explains how great leaders build resilience. Listen to The Leadership Podcast! https://bit.ly/TLP-452?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #Adaptability #GrowthMindset #Resilience #LeadershipPodcast
Susan Kelsey discusses the moral values that guide Susan Kelsey discusses the moral values that guided Billy Caldwell and shaped his legacy as a leader. 💪 His commitment to integrity and unwavering values allowed him to navigate complex negotiations and build lasting trust between Native American tribes and European settlers. Discover how his strong principles made him a true leader in this week's episode! https://bit.ly/TLP-460?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #BillyCaldwell #Integrity #Values #LeadershipLessons #NativeAmericanHistory #PodcastGuest #PodcastEpisode #History #MoralValues #StrongLeadership #CulturalBridges #ChicagoHistory #Negotiation #LeadershipPodcast #TrueLeaders #BeTheChange
Do you see feedback as criticism, or do you use it Do you see feedback as criticism, or do you use it as fuel for growth? Jamie Beaton believes the best leaders crave feedback—not to defend themselves, but to get better every day. If you want to build a high-performing team, this episode is for you! Listen now: https://bit.ly/TLP-456?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #GrowthMindset #FeedbackMatters #BusinessSuccess #LearnAndLead
"People don't leave jobs; they leave managers"—o "People don't leave jobs; they leave managers"—or do they? New research shows employees quit when they lack trust in leadership or don't believe in the mission. Authenticity, transparency, and purpose matter more than ever. 💡 Want to build trust & keep top talent? Tune in now! https://bit.ly/TLP-453?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#CompanyCulture #TrustInLeadership #EmployeeRetention #WorkplaceSuccess
Feeling stuck in your career or business? The firs Feeling stuck in your career or business? The first step to change is recognizing that YOU are the key to your own success. Kasey D'Amato shares why leaders must face the hard truths to move forward. https://bit.ly/TLP-455?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #Entrepreneurship #Success #Coaching #SelfImprovement #Mindset #Resilience
Mindset shift = game changer. Instead of dreading Mindset shift = game changer. Instead of dreading the tasks ahead, reframe them: What do I get to do today? Adam Contos challenges us to approach each day with purpose and energy. Ready to change the way you lead? Listen now! https://bit.ly/TLP-459?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #GrowthMindset #Resilience #SmallWins #Confidence #StartWithAWin #LeadershipLessons #SuccessMindset #ProfessionalGrowth #Podcast
Skills are important, but a learning mindset and c Skills are important, but a learning mindset and curiosity are what truly drive success. Jim explains why we need to focus on attributes like adaptability and critical thinking instead of just checking off technical skills. Tune in for more insights on building a smarter, more flexible team! https://bit.ly/TLP-461?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #Hiring #GrowthMindset #EmployeeDevelopment #Learning #TalentAcquisition
Feeling stuck in your career? Staying in the wrong Feeling stuck in your career? Staying in the wrong lane won't fix it. Jamie Beaton shares why making bold moves and course-correcting early is the key to long-term success. If you've been questioning your next step, this episode is for you! Listen now: https://bit.ly/TLP-456?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#CareerGrowth #Leadership #CuriositySwitch #EntrepreneurMindset #GrowthMindset
TLP453: Delegation Isn’t About Losing Control wi TLP453: Delegation Isn’t About Losing Control with Dr. Steven Stein Our latest episode with Dr. Steven Stein https://bit.ly/TLP-453?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders&utm_content=TLP453%3A%20Delegation%20Isn%27t%20About%20Losing%20Control%20with%20Dr.%20Steven%20Stein #leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #ExecutiveCoaching #LeadershipDevelopment #CorporateCulture #BusinessStrategy #Resilience #SelfAwareness #TeamDevelopment #WorkplaceCulture #DecisionMaking #RemoteWork #HighPerformance #Psychology #GrowthMindset
TLP458: How to Build a Business that’s Smarter t TLP458: How to Build a Business that’s Smarter than You with Pippa Begg Our latest episode with Pippa Begg https://bit.ly/TLP-458?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders&utm_content=TLP458%3A%20How%20to%20Build%20a%20Business%20that%27s%20Smarter%20than%20You%20with%20Pippa%20Begg #leadership #Resilience #DecisionMaking #HighPerformingTeams #Mentorship #PersonalGrowth #Trust #ContinuousLearning #LeadershipDevelopment
Top talent isn't about grades—it's about learnin Top talent isn't about grades—it's about learning agility, ambition, and adaptability. Jamie Beaton shares why the best leaders aren't just smart—they're hungry to grow and willing to take feedback. If you're hiring or leading a team, you don't want to miss this episode. Listen now: https://bit.ly/TLP-456?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #TopTalent #Hiring #BusinessGrowth #Entrepreneurship #ScalingUp
Struggling with sleep? Focus on relaxation and men Struggling with sleep? Focus on relaxation and mental quiet. Small habits can make a big impact! https://bit.ly/TLP-457?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#BetterSleep #HealthyLeadership #SleepHacks #Mindfulness #Performance
Big success doesn't happen overnight—it's built Big success doesn't happen overnight—it's built one small action at a time. Adam Contos reminds us that leadership isn't about giant leaps, but consistent effort. What's one small win you can create today? Listen to the full episode now! https://bit.ly/TLP-459?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #GrowthMindset #Resilience #SmallWins #Confidence #StartWithAWin #LeadershipLessons #SuccessMindset #ProfessionalGrowth #Podcast
Perseverance is what separates good leaders from g Perseverance is what separates good leaders from great ones. It's about adapting, pushing forward, and thriving in uncertainty. In this episode, Brandon Young and Blayne Smith share insights on resilience and leadership. Don't miss it! https://bit.ly/TLP-452?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#Leadership #Perseverance #Resilience
TLP459: Small, Consistent Actions Over Time with A TLP459: Small, Consistent Actions Over Time with Adam Contos Our latest episode with Adam Contos https://bit.ly/TLP-459?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders&utm_content=TLP459%3A%20Small%2C%20Consistent%20Actions%20Over%20Time%20with%20Adam%20Contos #leadership #BusinessSuccess #Teamwork #Accountability #GrowthMindset #Resilience #SmallWins #Confidence #Humility #LeadershipLessons #Podcast #SuccessMindset #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipPodcast #StartWithAWin
Trying to be someone else won't make you a better Trying to be someone else won't make you a better leader. In this honest reflection, General Stanley McChrystal shares how he experimented with different personas—until he discovered the power of leading as himself. Authentic leadership isn't easy, but it's worth it.🎧 Full episode here - The Leadership Podcast Mastermind 012 https://bit.ly/TLPMM012?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-qnt0VWJ1S8?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=westudyleaders#authenticleadership #stanleymcchrystal #leadershipidentity, #becomingabetterleader, #selfawarenessinleadership, #leadershipdevelopment, #militaryleadership
Follow on Instagram

Recent Posts

  • TLPMM012: On Character with General Stanley McChrystal
  • TLP464: Become the Boss You Want to Be with Sabina Nawaz
  • TLP463: Functional Art and Leadership with Sibley Bacon
  • TLP462: Overcome Your Fear of Being Seen with Linda Ugelow
  • TLP461: Looking for Unicorns: The Hiring Dilemma with Jim and Jan

Recent Comments

  • Anonymous on TLP459: Small, Consistent Actions Over Time with Adam Contos
  • Anonymous on TLP460: Lessons on Leadership from Native American Elders with Susan Kelsey
  • Anonymous on TLP460: Lessons on Leadership from Native American Elders with Susan Kelsey
  • Anonymous on TLP459: Small, Consistent Actions Over Time with Adam Contos
  • Anonymous on TLP445: Glue Guys: Identifying Hidden Leaders with Jim and Jan

Tags

adaptability assumptions athletics authenticity business change coaching communication corporate crucible culture Curiosity education emotional intelligence entrepreneur financial healthcare hiring history humor influence innovation interview Jim & Jan leader leadership military neuroscience Patagonia philosophy practitioner productivity relationships resilience sales science speaker sports stories team development teamwork thought leader trust values veterans

Copyright © 2025 Rafti Advisors, LLC & Self-Reliant Leadership, LLC - All Rights Reserved. | Privacy Policy